September 2024
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When Hurting Someone Becomes a Choice, Not a Mistake
There’s a massive difference between ignorance and choice. Ignorance is not knowing that your words, actions, or behaviour are causing harm. Choice is knowing full well and continuing anyway. People often blur the two because it feels safer. If harm can be framed as misunderstanding, poor communication, or good intentions gone wrong, then nobody has…
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When Peer Support Ends and You Drive Home Alone
There’s a moment that happens in peer support groups that nobody really talks about. A bloke shares something heavy. Not “work’s been stressful” heavy. Something that’s been buried for years. Something that took courage, or maybe just the right Monday night, to finally say out loud. The room goes quiet. You can feel it land.…
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Reaction Videos Are Stealing Content and Nobody Cares
Reaction videos have become one of the internet’s most lucrative scams. Creators sit in front of a camera, play someone else’s video, add barely any commentary, and collect ad revenue whilst the original creator watches their work get carved up and redistributed across platforms. The worst part? Platforms enable it, audiences lap it up, and…
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Why I Don’t Watch Porn and Feel Fine About It
Around 80 percent of men consume online pornography. I haven’t looked at it in decades – not from moral outrage, not from purity, just because somewhere along the way it stopped meaning anything. This is a personal account of what that position actually feels like, what it costs, and why awareness changes more than just…
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When “Support” Costs Nothing, It’s Worth Nothing
There’s a type of support that sounds reassuring when people talk about it, looks respectable on the surface, and yet somehow never quite shows up when it actually matters. You’ll recognise it instantly if you’ve ever tried to build something publicly. The Like, The Share, and The Disappearing Act People will like your post. They’ll…